Who Is Eligible To Access Respite Care For Children?

Woman supports young boy with disability during play-based respite care eligibility activity at home.

Caring for a child with a disability or complex needs can be both rewarding and exhausting. Every caregiver needs a break sometimes. That’s where respite care comes in. It gives parents and carers time to rest, recharge, or manage other responsibilities, while knowing their child is safe and supported. But understanding respite care eligibility—who qualifies and how to apply—isn’t always straightforward. This guide walks through the key eligibility criteria, assessment process, financial support, and the best timing to seek help.

What are the eligibility criteria for respite care?

Eligibility for respite care depends on several factors, including the child’s needs, the caregiver’s role, and the supports already in place. In most cases, eligibility is determined through the National Disability Insurance Scheme (NDIS) or by accessing other community-based programs.

Children may be eligible if they:

  • Are under 18 years of age
  • Have a diagnosed disability, developmental delay, or medical condition that affects daily functioning
  • Require support with personal care, mobility, or communication
  • Exhibit behavioural needs that require supervision
  • Have an NDIS plan that includes respite care (Short Term Accommodation) funding

Caregivers may be eligible if they:

  • Are the primary source of support for the child
  • Provide daily care without significant external assistance
  • Experience emotional, physical, or mental exhaustion
  • Require temporary relief due to illness, work, family emergencies,s or personal wellbeing

Not all children who require additional care will automatically qualify for funded respite care. The level of support needed and its impact on the family are also taken into account.

Who can provide respite care for children?

There are various types of respite care providers across Australia. The right option depends on the child’s needs, the family’s situation, and available funding. Common respite care options include:

  • Registered NDIS providers
  • Community care organisations
  • Private respite homes
  • Informal carers (such as friends or extended family)

Smiling child in wheelchair playing with carer during respite care eligibility support session.

A unique model of respite care involves personalised respite home care, where care is provided within a support worker’s personal home. The duration typically consists of regular overnight stays, making it ideal for a range of situations. This approach provides children with consistent care in a homely environment, helping to promote familiarity, stability, and meaningful connections.

The provider’s experience, safety protocols, and staff qualifications are all important considerations. Parents or carers usually remain involved in outlining the child’s routine, preferences, and any required medical or behavioural supports.

How is respite care eligibility assessed?

Respite care isn’t automatically granted. It generally involves a needs assessment, often as part of a broader NDIS planning or review process. This assessment evaluates the child’s care requirements and the caregiver’s circumstances. Here are the steps in the eligibility assessment process:

  1. Initial diagnosis or referral: Families often start with a diagnosis from a GP, paediatrician, or allied health professional. Read about developmental delay and available supports if your child hasn’t received a formal diagnosis but shows signs of needing extra care.
  2. Application for NDIS: If the family is not already on the scheme, they submit an access request form along with supporting documentation.
  3. NDIS planning meeting: A Local Area Coordinator or planner discusses the child’s and family’s goals and needs.
  4. Evidence of care needs: This may include health assessments, therapy reports, or documentation of daily routines and challenges.
  5. Request for respite funding: Known within NDIS as Short Term Accommodation (STA), this must be clearly requested and justified during planning.

Common documents that support eligibility:

  • Medical or diagnostic reports
  • Letters from therapists or support workers
  • Daily care logs or routines
  • School or childcare reports outlining challenges or needs
  • Behavioural assessments (if applicable)

NDIS planners evaluate the frequency and intensity of care provided and any risks of carer burnout or social isolation for the child.

What financial support is available for eligible families?

The NDIS is Australia’s primary funding source for children’s respite care. If a child is an NDIS participant, families can access support through their Core Supports budget. Here’s what NDIS can fund under respite:

Support

Examples

Short Term Accommodation (STA)

Up to 28 nights/year of overnight care

Daily living support

Help with routines like meals, hygiene

Community participation funding

Group activities, outings, holiday camps

Support coordination (if included)

Assistance navigating providers and planning care

If a family isn’t eligible for NDIS, other options include:

  • Carer Gateway: Australian Government-funded short-term respite.
  • Non-profit organisations: Charities offering low-cost or funded respite.
  • State government programs: Available through NSW Health or Family and Community Services.

Families often combine multiple support sources based on location and needs.

When is the best time to apply for respite care?

Families are encouraged to seek respite care before reaching a point of burnout. Early planning ensures access to suitable options, especially during peak times such as school holidays. Good times to explore respite care include:

  • Before a scheduled NDIS review: To ensure respite funding is added or maintained in the new plan
  • When daily caregiving becomes overwhelming
  • If a caregiver has health concerns or a life change (e.g., returning to work, illness, bereavement)
  • To support a child’s social skills and independence development
  • Ahead of school holidays, when many respite camps and programs become fully booked

Carer assisting child with disability during tambourine therapy session to assess respite care eligibility.

Signs it may be time to apply:

  • Reduced energy or sleep for the caregiver
  • Lack of time for self-care or relationships
  • Child showing signs of social withdrawal or boredom at home
  • Challenges managing household tasks or other children’s needs

By planning ahead, families can secure flexible and reliable support, avoiding the need to rely on emergency care options. If you’re unsure where to begin, discover how to access respite care for children with disabilities to ensure you’re prepared when the need arises.

Finding the right support matters

Understanding eligibility for respite care helps families make informed decisions before they feel overwhelmed. Access often begins with recognising the intensity of day-to-day caregiving and then working with health professionals and NDIS planners to find the right support.

Respite care isn’t just about time off for caregivers. It also helps children experience new environments, social connections, and greater independence. When done well, it strengthens the whole family.

If you’re unsure whether your family qualifies, you can connect with Our Family Respite for personalised care solutions.